I have been to the point of no return and stood there contemplating the jump. I have been to the extreme edge hoping that it diminishes my dilemmas. I have been to the farthest point of insanity and hoped for the light to shine from within. I have been to the gravest of the dungeons hoping that my demons die their natural death instead of me fighting them. The only thing that stayed alive was the feeling that there’s a tiny ray of hope that would provide the slight flight that I needed. The feeling called faith.
Have you ever felt so elated in life that you forget to rejoice? Have you ever felt that wave of pleasure take tide in your heart that you are left frozen? I have! Because for years, I have sailed a boat I knew would never take me to my destination. Because for years, I hoped that my conduct and actions would attribute to a greater happiness for those who expected. Because for years, I have snubbed that little voice inside of me for us.
Today I bid farewell to a relationship, an agreement, after a long eight years. A relationship that, like every new relationship, promised me a future filled with stars. And like any other relationship, through the course, my expectations from that relationship changed. I changed. My priorities changed. And I guess, the agreement was never reviewed. So today, I make my valediction.
And I cry. As the tears roll down my eyes, the only feeling I can sense is of complete satisfaction. That whatever came my way, during the time, I perfected it with whatever resources I had on hand. I believe that I delivered as much as my scope was to. And I have no repent. Not even when I am sure, I know, that for the last one year, I have deceived. I have swindled the cause that was between us. And in spite of that, I feel a calm resting in my heart. This feeling. Deceit. And redress.
From here on, I look ahead. For I know, deceit can only pave the way for detachment. I am detached now, for a bigger score, a larger prospect. What lies beyond and ahead is a hope to be at peace. I hope to take that leap of faith that I have been readying myself for long. I move towards the unknown in the hope to discover brilliance. With that feeling called faith, I move on, with tiny hesitant steps, into my world that I diminished before and rebuild it brick by brick, yet again.
I always believed in you,I knew my daughter can’t be so weak,there are many phases comes in ones life but brave are those who fight against them ,you know in your weak moments you make some good divisions n some bad ,but wise is he who overcome them.Always hope for the best,…………toofaan on se ladh kar kabhi Kashti paar nahin hoti,koshish karne walon ki kabhi haar nahin hoti.
Thanks mama…for all the support and strength, always!
This post resonated on many levels and I guess you know why too. Poignant, moving and inspiring. IT’s tough not to the jump from that edge of the cliff, but it takes ever more courage to come back and re-start everything. Hope you continue to scale the mountain of life without too many hardships ! Positive thoughts your way 🙂
Thanks so much Sid for all your wishes 😀
You took the decision to face your fears and fight, that is a great start. We all go through such times and win by not giving in but getting over. Healing light and love coming your way, take care.
Thanks Sulekha 🙂 Appreciate your wishes!
It takes a strong person to take that leap. Proud of u and lots of lv and besties. Let go and believe in yourself, you’ll rise shining and smiling. Bless u!
Thanks Aditi…I do need those blessings 🙂 Thanks!!
Life knocks us down, many a times. But with faith we can move the mountains!! So, look up and move ahead and see the beauty of life once again. I am sure, you can do it!! Best wishes to you, dear Kajal! 🙂 ♥
Thanks Shilpa…do need lots 🙂 ❤
Have faith in your wings and jump Kajal. I am sure you will fly. My best wishes. And if there is something I can do to help, do let me know. I am in Gurgaon, Sohna Road.
Love.
How sweet Alka, sure will reach out if I need help 🙂
That’s just another phase of life…. and been the strong woman you are… youa re gonna leap back even strongly… All the best dear ❤
Thanks Sheetal 🙂 Love!
It takes real bravery to take that leap and strike out on a new path. I wish you luck and that you find happiness wherever you go. ♥
Thanks Kathy! Am so looking forward to the next chapter of my life 🙂
That was inspiring and so similar to what I had to say today!
Faith keeps me going.. helps me stay strong 🙂
Beautiful words Kajal
Thanks Pixie…indeed in our days of despair, its faith that keeps us going!